Pushing Limits

A question for anyone involved in a power based relationship but this was intended particularly for those seeking a TPE relationship. I believe that slavery in particular but submission in general is enhanced by pushing a slave's limits. I do not mean that with a slave who has suffered severe trauma from rape that the Master then re-enacts a brutal rape scene. There is no intent her to engage in what has been described as domineering behavior, only dominant behavior. I am talking about a slave or sub who is reluctant to do something that her Master/Dom wants her to do. Pushing her to do it, I believe, enhances and develops her submission. Now suppose you have a totally submissive slave, at least in all areas where her Master wishes to go. She resists nothing he wants to do simply because their limits are totally compatible so there is no need to push. Would this be enjoyable? As a Master or Dom, do you like pushing your slave/sub and if you don't have something to push, would you seek to find something? As a simple example, would you enjoy flogging a slave whose pain tolerance was far higher than your strength could reach?This really also touches on the things that produce the altered state of consciousness that we call subspace or Domspace. I know some slaves/subs can go there more easily than others and with a wider variety of stimuli. One slave I talked to can go there purely on psychological stimuli. Does it help the sub to know that the Dom is enjoying it too? Suppose the Dom was bored to tears by whatever he was doing, would the sub enjoy it anyway?

If the Dom were bored with what was going on, it is my feeling that He would find a way to improve upon it--make it more interesting. It has been my experience that there ARE no two people who are so thoroughly compatible that they can't find even a small bone of contention.if the Dom enjoys sending the slave (i'll use slave since that's what i am & it simplifies things a bit) into subspace then by all means send her there sometimes. If He doesn't then He has the right to NOT send her there, whether it's for His own selfish reasons or health or what have you.As for a slave who has reached her upper limits, is there such a thing???????? i don't think so! If she has reached what is considered to be her upper limits then stop with whatever the higher tolerance is & go with something for which she has a lower tolerance. she has a high pain tolerance--try mental games, bondage, sensation play, etc.

If a Master is to have the power and responsibility for a slave, He must love her more than Himself. This is what makes a Master a true Master. What would we be without our slaves? Lonely and unfulfilled, to say the least. A true M/s relationship is the ultimate symbiosis, each one nourishing and tending tothe other to form a whole and complete being that is greaterthan the sum of its separate parts. Without the love and need of one another, the relationship would be weak and flawed, the power is restrained by love and fed by that same love.

i got this off of one of my elists, if anyone would like to comment, please do.

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